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Thursday, January 30, 2020

The Jurassic Park in Jaisalmer


This is the city of the golden fort. A city which looks like something out of the Arabian Nights when the sun goes down and the lights come on.


Before two centuries it was an outpost on the Silk Route hosting caravans of camels laden with silks and gold, then the world discovered the sea route and the rest is modern history.

I found the ancient history even more fascinating.

A billion years ago, this land was under the sea. It was raised by the Indian tectonic plate colliding with the Asian plate. Then it was a verdant forest with tall trees and carnivorous dinosaurs.

And no-this is not a bed time story I used to tell the kids (actually it was-I fed them lots of history and geography through bed time stories before they started suspecting what I was doing); but this is a story borne out by scientific evidence: footprints in the sand-literally and a treasure trove of fossils.
Or rather, what once a treasure trove of fossils.

Now it is a sad story of neglect, of our disdain for history.
Yahan koi fossil park hai?
The travel desk guy at our hotel was surprised as I insisted that is where we wanted to go.
"Maybe, it’s closed down." Kid 1 quipped hopefully.
Oh-Akal park. Wahan koi nahin jaata. Aap Sam dekh ke aayee na..” The guard tried to help.

No, we wanted to go the fossil park. Didn’t he understand how unique it was to walk through the evidence of a billion-year-old forest in the middle of the Thar desert?

He was unimpressed and advised us to take an auto-because it was close to the hotel.

The auto driver tried to talk us into a guided ‘city-tour’ instead.
My kids and husband looked at me with the unspoken “Where are we going?” look, especially after directions for 'Child Beer.'


On reaching, we realized why everyone was giving us those puzzled looks when we mentioned the fossil park.


Despite the battered board of grand intentions, it was just one desolate ruin.


When I had visited the place as a college student-we had felt like geologists on a treasure hunt.


Unfortunately, so had all others who visited after us and picked up the priceless evidence the way people cram their pockets with shells on a beach, to sell them as trinkets to tourists, or just leave it in the hotel trash bin once the novelty wears off.

A pair of disheveled, disgruntled Emus who greeted us where the closest to the T-rex we got.

Some pieces of crumbling fossilized logs were caged-too little done and too late to save them. 

They would have been safe from burglars anyway; exposed to the extreme elements of nature, they too wouldn’t be around much longer.

The kids made up their own stories and clicked pictures to help me get over my sheer disappointment.

On a trip to Europe, I had walked through glossily marketed palaces displaying ceramics and lace turning up my nose in disdain. Back home we had more history in every street!

Now I was awed by how much effort and care they had put in to preserve even the cutlery and linen. Here, we let the vandals just walk away with something over a billion years old!


Thursday, July 29, 2010

A Stay-at-Home-Mom

Now that I am a stay-at-home mum, my excuse of “No time” shouldn’t hold any more.
Yeah, but life just got busier (as if that was possible).
But more than me, it is my loving daughters who are puzzled (as opposed to thrilled :( ).
And I really wonder why, when they have a loving mom at home, ready to give them all the time in the world.
Who is ready with healthy stuff whenever they are hungry (Yuck!).
The kind of mother they always envied-you know the ones who keep their homes sparkling. (Nooooo, you can’t fine me for the messy cupboard, you asked me only to clean the room)
A mom eager to play Badminton with them (Hey, we can’t count playing with you as free time).
 A mother ready to guide them with their studies (No, You can’t open my school bag without permission. It’s Private).
A mother ready to talk whenever they want to..(That’s Ok, but I still need to talk to my friend whom I play with everyday, and who lives just a floor below, for 20 mins on the phone).
Someone who is ALWAYS there for them…(OH GOD!  So what happens to internet time…)
Is it already too late, I wondered. 
Did I make a mistake..
And then Aurora piped in:
That’s just not fair. (the favorite phrase of the moment). You send us to school and then you can read books, watch TV, go back to sleep..
I wan’t to be a stay at home kid too!
I should be heartbroken at their response. The wicked Loverna in me is actually relishing every moment of it.
The mother in me is glad to be there for them…..no matter how they feel about it.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Swine-flu and School-Part 2

Yes-I have written enough on the subject and hopefully this is my last post on the topic. Have to maintain the parity in writing about them too-so here is Elena’s story,

The wise old lady-did not even argue about the mask.

She, like her mom, always takes the path of least confrontation-and then goes ahead and does what she means to do anyway (not like her mom though).

She was more concerned about the now essential accessory-the Sanitizer.

The experience, far-sighted teachers, after explaining the need to keep hands clean, told the kids to carry their own sanitizers because they wouldn’t be allowed to rush out to wash their hands, every time.

So Dad was contacted on email and phone and sent a reminder lest he forget, and pestered till he came with the new sanitizer school packs.

Two days later........
a very contrite looking kid with her eyes on the ground comes to me with her coin box, Mamma you can keep this.

Where did that come from?

I am sorry I lost the Sanitizer, I need another one…

Actually Mamma, I don’t think I lost it. I am very sure, the girl who sits behind me, flicked it, she had that kind of expression on her face….but I am still very sorry..

Yep-I fell for the “senti” scene again! Told her to keep the money (which she promptly did) and promised to get one more…

Oh and Mom.... can you please ask Papa to get a pink one this time, Komal also has one…

And Ma’am told us the Himalaya one is the best….

So we get ready to stock up on the latest accessory in school, with full specs on brands, fragrances and colors…